I am a Pearl Mother - are you?

Mother of Pearls is a mother of life, she is a mother of beauty & power. A Woman that nourishes, feeds & changes the world. She is the Mother of many pearls - but she is unable or unwilling to have children.

Women without children are Mothers of Pearls. We carry the quality & strength of Mother - but we do not give birth to children. Our “children” or Pearls as I choose to call them, appear in the form of our art, projects, work & everything that we create, nourish & give birth to. 

I am one of those many women around the world that is infertile. I am not able to have children. For many years me & my husband tried all we could to conceive, going through IVF treatments & surgeries. But after 7 long years of trying - we gave up. We realised that we had spent a lot of energy & money on something that was not happening - and perhaps not meant to be. After a long time of grieving this dream that did not come true. We decided we had so many other dreams that were worth seeking & fulfilling.
We now live a happy child-free lifestyle - & are now in love with life & all it has to offer.

The word infertile has been sitting with me for a while now - & taking it on was difficult for me. I never liked this word - Infertile! I am actually a really fertile woman. I make music, I write, I create ceremonies - all things that take effort & creativity. So I decided that I am actually not Infertile - I needed another word for it. I am a Pearl Mother!

Mother of Pearls is a mother of life, she is a mother of beauty & power. A Woman that nourishes, feeds & changes the world. She is the Mother of many pearls - but she is unable or unwilling to have children.

Women without children are Mothers of Pearls. We carry the quality & strength of Mother - but we do not give birth to children. Our “children” or Pearls as I choose to call them, appear in the form of our art, projects, work & everything that we create, nourish & give birth to. 

Through this painful experience of trying to have a baby - seeking this dream that did not come true - I have gathered many methods, practises & things that helped me overcome this deep sorrow. I am still healing this wound in my life - I realise that for an Infertile Woman this deep sorrow will always be a part of me. This scar on my soul will always be there - it has stopped bleeding for me - I have done my best to heal it & take good care of it - but this scar is a big part of me now. It makes me the Woman I am today.

I carry the title Pearl Mother with pride & honour. I offer all Infertile Women to do the same!

Do you wish to read more about the Pearl Mother?

The book "Pearl Mother - a Woman without Children" is now available on Amazon!

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Private Online Sessions
I offer Private Online Sessions for Infertile Women seeking clarity & inspiration in healing & overcoming the wound.
I realise that talking to someone that understands your pain is one of the most healing steps, on this painful journey overcoming this deep sorrow.
I will listen to your pain, be there for you - & then offer suggestions in the form of Ceremonies, Meditations & Yoga.

Pearl Mothers Circles & Meditations on Zoom
We gather in a Circle, Women sharing the same wound. Each Circle is dedicated to a theme that can bring more clarity & inspiration to your path to healing.
We Meditate together & in that way call in peace & blessings to our lives.

Next Meditation Circle for Pearl Mothers on Zoom will be on March 11, 2024

Pearl Mothers Private Group on Facebook
A space for Women like me, that can not or will not have children, & share the lifestyle of child-free. A group where we can inspire each other & have conversations that lead us to healing.

Pearl Mothers Seminars & Retreats

The next Pearl Mother Retreat will be in Spain in the Spring 2025!

Uni Arndisar is a Völva, Musician and Healer from Iceland. Uni creates and leads Icelandic Goddess Ceremonies where she connects with the Divine feminine and Mother Earth, through chanting, Meditation and Ceremonies.
Uni has walked her spiritual path, following the wisdom of her ancestors and the inspiration of the vibrant fairy world, living within the beautiful Nature Temple of Iceland. With a passion for spirit and healing in heart she has travelled the world and learned from different paths and traditions. Amongst others the Native American tradition in New Mexico, the Avalon Priestess training in Glastonbury and the path of Yoga and Meditation.
As a musician and sound healer, Uni releases her own music and creates songs that bring the Icelandic Goddess to the world.

Uni is Infertile but has taken on the title Pearl Mother, seeking to change the way the world sees Infertility.
Uni encourages Infertile Women to take on the title Pearl Mother with pride, & prove to the World that Women without Children have an important role on Mother Earth. 

Uni offers Private Sessions, Seminars, Retreats & Ceremonies. 

~Uni~
Úní Arndísar
www.uni.is
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